Since I've got bridesmaids on the brain, I thought I'd devote another post to your handy sidekicks. I have just found the prettiest DIY gift I think I've ever seen: homemade bubble bath (recipe by Abigail Beal here) in a gorgeous vintage or frosted glass bottle customized with a set of these amazingly adorable and free downloadable templates from Eat, Drink, Chic here. These templates are to die for! Incredibly chic and original, and could also be used for bridal shower favours or guest favours for a small wedding.
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Tuesday, August 25, 2009
Bubbles for the Bridesmaids
Since I've got bridesmaids on the brain, I thought I'd devote another post to your handy sidekicks. I have just found the prettiest DIY gift I think I've ever seen: homemade bubble bath (recipe by Abigail Beal here) in a gorgeous vintage or frosted glass bottle customized with a set of these amazingly adorable and free downloadable templates from Eat, Drink, Chic here. These templates are to die for! Incredibly chic and original, and could also be used for bridal shower favours or guest favours for a small wedding.
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Tuesday, August 4, 2009
Bags for your maids!

Bridesmaids, oh bridesmaids! What would we do without them? For the most part, bridesmaids will be your lifesaver! They are everything that your fiance is not: excited about the ribbon you bought, eager to get your bikini waxes done before the wedding, and hopefully completely willing to let you unload all of your wedding stresses on. Not only do they act as your lovely sidekick throughout your wedding planning process, they likely have shelled out a lot of dough on dresses, shoes, shower gifts, shower planning and your ridiculous stagette (well, I say likely, because there are definitely some who do none of the above). Regardless, you are expected to thank your girls in the most appropriate way possible, and that means prezzies!
If you have a friend with specific tastes and they're uber easy to pick out presents for, then go for it! If they are a little more complex and have a wide array of interests, I say go for the bridesmaid bag! This is a perfect option because it can handle any size budget. For a teeny weeny budget, opt for a paper gift bag customized by you, and fill with the necessary goods. For a splurge, grab some incredible oversized hobo bags that will have your girls leaping for joy, and stuff it with even more exciting treats. Other types of holders you can stuff with stuff: fold-up toilettries bags, cosmetic bags, canvas tote bags, carry-on luggage bags, gym bags, picnic baskets, wicker baskets, laundry hampers, beverage coolers, beach bags and so on.
What I like the most about maids' bags is that you're likely to include at least ONE thing that they absolutely love, which means you really can't go wrong. By including a variety of smaller gifts you're not risking buying your future sister-in-law one big ticket item that she really will never use or just flat out doesn't like. A few ideas for your bridesmaid bag stuffers:
~a classic or special edition vintage book hand-picked for each one
~spa treats: scented candles, bubble bath, lotions and bath beads, slippers
~cooking lessons, cook books, a pretty apron, some organic cookie mixes, fun shaped cake pans
~gardening tools, seed packets (maybe even for the same flowers used at your wedding)
~ handmade pottery
~photo albums or scrapbooking things
~yoga classes with a yoga mat, towel and a lululemon headband
~for a beach bag: towels, sunscreen, lip balm, body butter, sunglasses, bikini, a fab floppy hat
~perfume, make-up
~jewelry set
~travel items: luggage tag, small cosmetic containers for carry-on, inflatable neck pillow, mini bottles of booze;)
~bottle of wine, corkscrew, decanter, glasses, and some really yummy dark chocolate
And, although it's super cute for the wedding, I say try to avoid any "Bridesmaid" embroidery on their bags. They'll be much more likely to use it again if you keep it plain. Instead, try using the sticky monogram embroidered patches from Fabricland, as they look great and can peel right off if your maid would like.
Sunday, June 28, 2009
Top 10: #2 Be realistic about your bridesmaids

#2. Be realistic about your bridesmaids. Being a bridesmaid is an honor, but it's also a job. A job that comes with such a vague description that it can end up causing major drama throughout the wedding planning process. Not every girl is born to be a bridesmaid, and you're more than likely going to be choosing your maids based on close friend or family ties, and not on helpfulness/ usefulness in terms of assisting you. Just like men, bridesmaids can't always read your mind and know exactly what you want them to do and when to do it. Well, unless they're like me, of course!
The key to "bridesmaid bliss" is to examine the roll you expect your bridesmaids to fill, examine their expectations of being a bridesmaid, and finally, to communicate with them. I am not saying you should give them a long list of tasks as soon as they assume the roll of BM by any means! What I am saying is to make sure your expectations are align, and to be fair, honest and reasonable with them. Don't be a bridezilla, but don't be a push-over.
The best way to communicate this is to let them know what is in store from the get go. If you ask a crafty friend to be a BM, then right away let her know how creative you think she is and how you would love some help with the design elements of the wedding. Is your future sister-in-law completely clueless when it comes to cutesy things but great with numbers and tables, ask her for help with seating arrangements and so forth. And if you're a control-freak bride who wants to do it all on her own, make sure you let your eager beaver MOH know before she starts to get overly involved with planning your perfect day.
The best idea is to politely and graciously delegate reasonably sized tasks to the appropriate people, and this will ensure that things will get done according to plan. Just remember, your bridesmaids may have no idea what to do, so unless you ask for their help you shouldn't begrudge them for being useless (because some of them will be).
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